Father’s Day 2010

21 06 2010

In November of 1936, I bet my Great Grandpa (Silas Wesley Maness) didn’t think his little leather journal would ever mean much to his great grandson (me). But 74 years later, his life…his faith…his ministry, is still having a ripple effect in his descendants.  You see My Great Grandpa was a pastor, but WAY more importantly than that, he was a man of God.  He passed on his faith to his son Elzie, who passed it on to his son Gary, who is STILL passing it on to his son, Jeff (me)!  This past Sunday some of Silas’life was literally…physically, passed on to one of his descendants.

I had the rare privilege of being with my dad on Father’s Day.  Both of us being pastors, we don’t get many Sunday’s away, and well, Father’s Day is always on a Sunday.  But my family was finishing up our vacation/missions trip yesterday at High Plains Community Church in Gillette, WY,  where my dad was delivering the morning message.  It doesn’t really matter much what was sung, or what was said, for me it was more about what was done.

I LOVE listening to my dad preach, I think I always have (even when I didn’t admit it).  He is highly influential in my preaching style today (so you can blame him).  And while the sermon was fantastic (I even jotted some notes to use in a future message), the closing was the best.  He surprisingly asked me to join him on the platform and then pulled out the little leather journal you see pictured here.

This journal belonged to my Great Grandpa, who, between November of 1936 and June of 1938, used it to record his statistical records of ministry.  Numbers of sermons preached, numbers of souls saved, numbers of souls seeking the fullness of God’s Spirit through complete surrender, numbers of prayer calls, and donations received, etc.  It is literally, a written record of his faith in action.  I had no idea my dad even had this.  He challenged all the dads in the room on their responsibility to “pass on” the faith to their children, and then he passed on my Great Grandpas journal to me.  WOW!  It was a physical demonstration of a spiritual discipline.  I was blown away.   It was EASILY, the best Father’s Day gift I could have received.  BUT…

That leather journal wouldn’t have meant much, if my dad hadn’t of ALSO already passed on his “spiritual journal”…his faith to me.  The gift of the journal I will ALWAYS display and hopefully pass it on to my son one day.  But my dads “spiritual journal”…my Grandpas “spiritual journal”…my Great Grandpas “spiritual journal”, is ALWAYS on display.  It’s on display in me.  So what will my “journal” say in my son, grandson(s) or great grandson(s)?

Some day, some Father’s Day, my Great Grandson(s) will hopefully point back to me and say “Thank you!” like I do today.  Thank you Grandpa Silas.  Thank you Grandpa Maness.  Thank you Dad, for living out your spiritual journal!  Dad’s DO NOT take for granted your spiritual OPPORTUNITY to pass on a “spiritual journal” to your children.

Till the end,

Jeff





Raising A Man

11 05 2010

The GREATEST responsibility I have as “Jeff Maness” is not in leading Element Church or being a pastor.  It is not in preaching God’s Word, or discipling new believers.  It’s not casting a compelling vision, serving God’s Kingdom or serving God’s children.  The greatest responsibility I have, is loving my wife and raising my children.  Specifically, as a man with a son, I have a HUGE responsibility to raise a MAN OF GOD!

For months now I’ve been challenged about the time I have left with Jonah.  Jonah turned 9 this past Sunday, so that means I have another 9 years left (give or take) where he is living under my roof and under my care.  Almost HALF of my time with him is already gone!  Holy cow!  (That actually just hit me)  What will I do with it?  How will I leverage it?  What will come of it? So I began praying for God’s direction in this and received some HUGE help from a book called “Raising A Modern Day Knight”.

I know that following Christ is a decision HE will have to make, and becoming a man of God is a work ONLY God can do.  HOWEVER, it is my duty and obligation to set forth a path on which Jonah is steered in the right direction.  That path started today.  Next year on his 10th birthday, and for the following 9 years, I am going to take Jonah through a rite of passage.  (Jonah will be 19 when he graduates high school)

The first step?  This week I bought Jonah a Bible that I will be reading for the year.  Every day as I read, I will underline verses and make notes (as his dad), that I think are important to him becoming a man.  Next year on his 10th birthday he will receive it from me to start his rite of passage.  I’ve told him about this, showed him the Bible, and even this morning he asked “Is that the Bible you’re giving me?”  The Bible came with a poster that we are hanging in his room too, to remind him and me of the process.

I’ve also developed our own “Code of Honor” that I want to teach, instill and model for him, so that, he will not only KNOW what it means to be a man, but also what it LOOKS like.  I’ll highlight that code of honor through the Bible as I read.  At 10 years, 13, 16 and 19 we will have some special event we share together as he walks through the stages of becoming a man.  It might be a trip somewhere, a party or a celebration of some kind.  He’ll have some say in that.

Our code of honor is this:  A real man is #1  Aggressive At Purity; #2 Leads Courageously; #3 Takes Responsibility; #4 Lives For Eternity

I’ll do something similar for the girls, and am already praying through what that will look like.  I can’t wait to see what God does, not only in my son, but in ME, God’s Son!

Taking responsibility,

Jeff





65 years ago today…

16 11 2009

…my Grandpa, Ola D Campbell, flew his last WWII mission as a bomber pilot.  The reason it was his last?   While flying on this particular mission their plane was shot and my Grandpa was wounded in the process.  Because he continued to fly the plane, even after being shot, he was awarded the flying silver cross and the purple heart.

Last week, as our country celebrated veterans day, it was because of men like my Grandpa that we even have the freedom to celebrate.  It’s hard to believe that the course of MY history could have been eliminated but for the matter of a few inches.  If a bullet or shrapnel hits differently, my life and family may not exist.

As proud as I am of my Grandpa for serving our country like that, there is something else that I look up to even more.  Ola D Campbell wasn’t allegiant only to his country.  He has followed the call of God in ministry since LONG before I ever called him “Grandpa”.  I know that there were sacrifices, decisions and stands my Grandpa had to make in the spiritual world, that affected my life and family just as much as the war did.  The spiritual implications of my Grandpas life are FAR MORE valuable than any military heroics.

There are VERY few men in my life that I can truly say “If I end up like them, I’ll be a success.”  Ola D Campbell…Grandpa Campbell is one of them.

Thanks mom for the reminder of Grandpas story.  Thank you Grandpa, for not only serving our great country…but for diligently serving our GREAT GOD!

Till the end,

Jeff





Jaydah’s Costume

24 10 2009

This has gotta be one of the cutest kids who will be at a church Halloween (Harvest) party this year.  Jaydah’s costume is a chicken.  Her legs are actually in the chicken legs but it looks like she is riding on top of it.  Check it out below.  So cute!

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Sometimes to go up…

24 07 2009

IMG00850…you have to go down.  Sure seems like that is true in life a lot doesn’t it?  Today we took the fam out to Vedauwoo (prounounced vedavoo) and had a picnic, climbed rocks and went hiking.  It was a blast to be out in God’s creation with Sab and all the kids.  Jonah, who is ALL boy, LOVED climbing the rocks, exploring the crevices and seeing how high he could go.  I let him loose to lead the way.  At one point he wanted to go higher and “thought” he had found a way.  He was DETERMINED to get higher, and was frustrated that his way wasn’t quite passable for an 8 year old.  What he didn’t realize that if he would have just gone DOWN a little bit, there was a better way to get higher.  It reminded me of the Israelites and their passage to the Promise Land.

Exodus 13:17-18 says “17 When Pharaoh finally let the people go, God did not lead them along the main road that runs through Philistine territory, even though that was the shortest route to the Promised Land.  God said, “If the people are faced with a battle, they might change their minds and return to Egypt.” 18 So God led them in a roundabout way through the wilderness toward the Red Sea. Thus the Israelites left Egypt like an army ready for battle.

Now the Bible doesn’t record this, but I’m SURE someone realized this was NOT the shortest way.  I’m sure someone was frustrated, complained and even pointed this out to Moses.  What they didn’t realize was that this was a BETTER IMG00845way.  It was sparing them MORE danger than was necessary.  Difficult battles.  Loss, pain, even tragedy.

Often in my life, I wonder why it seems God is taking me DOWN instead of up.  “Why are we not moving forward?”  I ask.  Cause sometimes to go up…you have to go down.

What are you going through in your life that seems as if God is taking you backwards?  Making you go down?  Keeping you from the direction YOU think you should go?  Remember, the way He has you on IS the BEST way.  It may not be the shortest, or even the most visible, but it IS the BEST!

Following Christ,

Jeff





Vacation Update and Pictures

24 04 2009

My wife and I got back from our vacation on Tuesday evening.  We had an AWESOME time flying to Miami and hopping a cruise ship to the Bahamas.  Sabrina earned the all expense paid trip through her home based business Tastefully Simple.  She had to sell a certain amount of product and recruit a certain number of consultants.  She met her quota and off we went to the Bahamas.  We got to spend a couple of days in Miami as well due to flight scheduling.  All in all we got to spend 6 days together on vacation, and 3 days prior to that we were together at our denominational pastors and wives retreat.  It was a great way to relax following Easter weekend.  Sabrina’s dad and step mom, Mike and Elaine, graciously came up to Cheyenne to watch the kids during this time.  Most of it was covered by just her step-mom since her dad had to head back to OK for work.  (THANK YOU Mike and Elaine for your help!)  Below is a link to some pictures of our trip.  We were able to do a cool excursion in the Bahamas on Saturday.  We went to a private island where we were able to swim with stingrays and actually fed them out of our hands.  It was amazing to be snorklin in the water and watch a stingray swim within arms reach right underneath you.  So cool!  There were about 700 Tastefully Simple consultants on the boat and many of them earned the trip for their spouses or a friend as well.  Sabrina is well on her way to earning a trip to Cancun next year.  I’ll get back in the blog swing next week.  Trying to get caught up from being gone so long.  Finding the groove is difficult after vacation.

PICTURES HERE

Rested,

Jeff





Family Moments

7 03 2009

Friday I had the priveledge of serving with Makalah at the Soup Kitchen.  She LOVES it and was a challenge to me with her great attitude about it.  Here are a couple pics of her serving.  img00176

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Friday afternoon we went to a class play put on by Mariah’s Kindergarten class.  They celebrated Dr. Suess week by acting out Horton Hears A Who.  Mariah was a Who.

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Today, Jonah and I tore up the slopes at Snowy Range Ski Area.  We had a BLAST!  It won’t be long and he’ll be skiing circles around me.  We pretty much took blue runs the whole day (intermediate).  Jonah will be ready to shred some black diamonds (expert) next year.  He was absolutely tuckered out by the end.  The weather and snow conditions were superb.  Here are some pictures.  Click HERE to view all the pictures.

Dad and Jonah on the lift:

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Jonah shredding it up:

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Jonah in the “conquer” pose after taking the blue run behind him:

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Love my family,

Jeff





Family Night

27 02 2009

We’ve been observing Wednesday nights as our family night since January 1st.  One of our goals for the new year was to protect Wednesday evenings, and do something special with the kids.  We’ve done games, movie nights, swimming, arcade and other stuff.  I wanted to do something different so when the opportunity came to take our kids into an air traffic control tower I jumped at the chance.  Wednesday night after dinner we headed to the tower where one of our Elementers works.  It was VERY cool to go up inside and we even got to see a plane land from there.  The kids thought it was the coolest thing ever. Here are a couple of pics.  Mariah wouldn’t let me take a picture and Makalah’s didn’t turn out.

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Serving Together

7 02 2009

One of the things I look forward to every month is taking one of my kids to the Soup Kitchen.  I’ll, be honest, I don’t always feel like going to serve.  There are LOTS of excuses that come up each month.  But I ALWAYS leave, grateful and thanful for what God has blessed us with.  Since Makalah is in pre-school and gets out at 11:30 AM, I’m able to pick her up on the first Friday of each month and head to the Salvation Army soup kitchen to help serve lunch.  Both the kids and I choose (I make them) to eat whatever is being served.  I even ate fish a few months ago.  YUCK!  We go out among the people and sit down to eat our lunch after serving those in need.  Yesterday, Makalah and I sat with a young couple with three little kids.  I was SO THANKFUL for what God has given us.  It is so easy to sit in my 4 bedroom house with my heat on, pantry and fridge stocked, closet full of clothes and bills all paid, only to find myself complaining about what I DON’T have.  WOW, how much do we have?  More than I need to be honest.  I LOVE teaching my kids to serve, but also to teach them to be thankful for what we have.  Here is a picture of my care bear serving by my side.

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STILL learning,

Jeff





Swimming And A Trip To Denver

24 01 2009

Wednesday night we took our family to the city indoor pool for a night of swimming and hanging out.  We had a TON of fun.  The city has a great swimming pool.  It was our first time there.  They had a perfect kiddie pool for Jaydah (and it was warm).  A high and low diving board and an indoor water slide.  They had life jackets for all the kids that wanted them and a very large swimming area.  It was our first time to that pool since moving here and I think we’ll go again.  The kids didn’t want to leave (well, except Makalah who may be developing a fear of water).  img00082

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Yesterday (Friday), Pastor Adam, Amber, Sabrina and I all went to Denver for the day.  We went to the Denver Zoo to film some promo vidoes and sermon intros for our upcoming sermon series at Element.  It was a BLAST!  Two weeks ago when we planned this excursion, Adam and I wanted to make part of the day taking our wives with us and going to The Melting Pot restaraunt in Fort Collins.  Sab has been REALLY wanting to go there.  It is a 4 course fondu meal.  HOLY COW the food is good (and pricey).  We had a great day and fun double date with Pastor Adam and Amber.  In fact Adam has some cool thoughts as it relates to church HERE so check it out.

It was FREEZING at the zoo, but it was perfect for keeping the crowds away as we needed to film in several areas of the zoo.  Anytime you walk around with a big professional looking video camera and a microphone you attract attention.  Go figure.  We saw the lions get fed (never seen that before).  And WAY more of the animals were out than usual it seemed.  Not sure if it was the weather or the lack of crowds.  The zoo NEVER gets old to me.  We ended the night at The Melting Pot with the Flaming Turtle chocolate fondu.  WOW!  I think that is the only word to describe that chocolatey goodness.  lol  Thanks to Adam and Amber for hanging out with us and my awesome wife for spending the day with me.

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STILL FULL,

Jeff








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